Welcome to the no holds barred guide on how to sleep with hot Asian “good girls” and convince them to date you.
All of the information provided here is from experience dating hot Asian girls and not just some made up BS that you would usually find on the internet. Asian women are much different than girls in the West but you probably already knew that. These girls are sweet, homely, and know how to take care of their man in every way. The main thing you have to understand here is that it’s almost impossible to get friend stamped and that you should be nice to these girls.
In the West you have to try not to get friend stamped and try to seem like an alpha male. You should avoid this for the most part with a majority of the girls in Asia because they don’t have a macho culture. It’s usually a big turnoff to them if you try to be the center of attention or if you act too cocky. Remember that you already stand out and that all you really need to do is make friends with a girl that you like. I’ll say that one more time for emphasis – MAKE FRIENDS with girls you’re interested in.
After you’ve made friends with them just casually try to get them to hang out. Don’t call them your friend but you can definitely hide your intentions because they aren’t going to friend stamp you. For a majority of these girls, sex just isn’t that big of a deal if they like you.
After hanging out with them once or twice you need to set up an evening to take them out. This night out is the second important piece to the puzzle. You have to take them to three separate locations over the course of the night. This means something like dinner and a drink at one place, move to another venue for one more drink, and then on to one more place that she just HAS to check out. The purpose of this is to make them feel like they’ve known you longer by being with you in so many different places. Three is usually the magic number here in psychology.
While you’re on these dates don’t forget to subtly touch them to break the touch barrier so they won’t feel weird later on when you go for the kill. This will usually prove difficult because of the culture in most Asian countries so you have to do it very subtly. For example, just touch their shoulder when you say something. This works best when you make a joke about something so it seems light hearted and make sure you’re smiling. Another great way to break the touch barrier is to direct them a different way or act like you’re protecting them from running into someone. It’s quite easy to do by just touching their back or side and kind of guiding them. Another great takeaway here is that the last place should be very close to your apartment or hotel.
The best way I’ve found to do this is to book a hotel or apartment that has a bar. There are tons of places like this is big cities for reasonable rates. A perfect example of this is when I was living in Chiang Mai, Thailand. There was a bar and pool on the roof of my apartment for only $500/mo. After you take a girl up to the roof and you’re on the way back down in the elevator, you just hit your floor number instead of the bottom floor and head to your room with them. They usually won’t say anything but if they do just tell them you want to show them something and you can make anything up that you’d like.
If you don’t have a bar at your place then it’s not too difficult to tell them you want to watch a movie while suggesting the two of you head back to your place. Most girls know what “watching a movie” means but as long as it’s not obvious that you’re going to try to have sex with them then they can feel like it just happened. After you get them in the room the rest of the work is up to you. This should be very easy to pull off since most Asian girls (yes, even the good girls) will have sex with you if you get them alone. All you have to do really is have them sit next to you or wrap your arms around them from behind.
The beauty of this is that every hot Asian girl in the world (that’s not a prostitute) will feel something for you after they’ve been on a date or two with you and you’ve had sex. If the girl you’re with is truly a good girl she won’t try to move in with you the next day but she will be on the hook for sure and it’s smooth sailing from there. At this point, just don’t mess it up and there you go! You now have all of the steps to go out there make it happen for you.
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