Find and Date your Dream Girl in Thailand

dreamgirlThere are many people out there that are into Asian girls but don’t know how to go about dating them.  There are a few ways that you can go about picking these girls up and I’m going to give you a step by step guide.  I’ve been living in Asia for a few years now and have a bit of experience in this quest.  These Thai girls can be well worth the effort if you go about it the right way.


Move to Thailand

If you want a Thai girlfriend then the obvious first step would be to move to Thailand.  These girls don’t travel outside of their country very much.  Even if they do travel and you meet them in different country they will be very westernized or they will be wanting to move back to their home country.  I actually prefer Thailand to many of the other countries I’ve been to, especially my home country.  The people here are friendly and laid back, it’s cheap, the girls are hot, and the food is amazing.

Join Dating Sites

This could arguably be the first step but I just prefer to actually be able to setup dates before investing a lot of time into talking with a girl online.  Maybe you’re not very techy but that shouldn’t stop you.  It’s really easy to get involved and to get online to talk to these girls.  Go make yourself an account on ThaiFriendly and also on ThaiCupid.  These websites are best used with the premium versions so that you can send as many messages to people as possible in a short amount of time.  It’s also good to have the paid version so you can message the premium members, which are the most attractive girls that get messaged the most.  The put this tool in place to limit the competition for these girls for the paid members.

cultureLearn Thai Culture

Thai culture is a bit different than any other culture.  My suggestion is to learn this so that you know what you should and shouldn’t do, plus also to be able to understand why these girls act the way they do.  There are simple things such as the concept of “saving face” or the standard “mai pen rai” saying that seems to drive their country. You’ll learn that they don’t shave their legs, or anything really for that matter.  You’ll learn about “jao” vs “ka” and what they means for the way they might behave.  It’s really interesting when you look into it so give it ago.

Learn Thai

Learning Thai is a hard challenge for most people.  I still haven’t even learned it fully after being here for years but I see how much it helps to even have a limited knowledge.  If you can get fluent then you would have  HUGE advantage on the rest of the Western guys here.  If you practice for 30 minutes to an hour per day then you will pick it up in no time.  The hard part is the tones but that will come in time.  Keep at it and don’t give up for 6 months and you’ll be able to hold a conversation with very little effort.

Talk to Every Girl

Last but not least, you should talk to every girl you come across.  This will help you to understand their culture even better and to understand the different types of girls here.  There is a gray zone between a good girl and a prostitute and these gray zoned girls will wind up cheating on you with another guy for money.  They like to go out with their friends a lot and do bad things behind your back.  Some may lie and steal from you.  You have to be very careful here because they think that it’s normal.  I’d suggest sticking with only the good girls and the only way to figure out which girl is ACTUALLY a good girl, is to date a lot of different chicks.  This is the best advice I can give here.  Too many men come here and have their heart broken and their live savings drained so don’t make that mistake.